A child is an Accessory?

When did a child become an accessory? A child is a new life a new generation. Do you every ask yourself what is our future looking like for our children? Well, this is a question that we should be asking ourselves. Have you noticed that the pregnancy rate keeps going up in the Junior Highs and High Schools. That should tell us a lot. As parents we are not educating our young children like we should. And as friends we are not keeping our friends educated and encouraging them and ourselves to make the right choices.

I believe that our society needs to take sometime out and reevaluate the decisions that we are making. Sex. What is sex? In the dictionary sex is defined as —Idiom 8. to have sex, to engage in sexual intercourse. Now, no where in that definition does it say anything about when you have sex you can get pregnant, well that is where sex education from school and family come in. We need to be more aware as a community that when engaging in sex there are high chances of getting pregnant. So people if you have sex use protection, having babies has become a trend.

So when did a child become a trend? The answer to that question is never. A child is never an accessory or part of a trend. A child is a new life in the world to keep our generations going and that very child is the next child to run the world when we are old. So let's mature people and by doing that allow ourselves to grow up first before adding someone new in our lives. Reevaluate ourselves and see that maybe we should be using protection if we are going to have sex. Take your time and make sure that you are making the right decision when selecting a mate for life. Set up a foundation for your family. Then get married and if a child fits that part of your life then go ahead and start your family.

We as a society need to think about how we are jumping into life long decisions. Be ready and make sure that we are paving the way for our children. Know that babies are not the new trend or an accessory but a new life that is sent here on earth with a mission to conquer. Educate one another. Know that sex is normal but be safe don't let emotions and pleasure get in the way of making a right decision. Wait till your life is in order to bring life into this world. Give the new generation something to look forward to.

Set the example and lead the way to our new generations future.